Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Louise Jacobs, District Associate Judge.
The opinion of the court was delivered by: Vogel, P.J.
A mother appeals the district court's order terminating her parental rights. AFFIRMED.
Considered by Vogel, P.J., and Potterfield and Doyle, JJ.
A mother, Michelle, appeals the district court's order terminating her parental rights to her two children: K.J., born 2004, and E.J., born 2005.*fn1 Her parental rights were terminated pursuant to Iowa Code sections 232.116(1)(d) (2011) (child adjudicated child in need of assistance (CINA) for neglect, circumstances continue despite services) and (i) (child CINA, child was in imminent danger, services would not correct conditions). On appeal, Michelle argues the State failed to prove the statutory elements by clear and convincing evidence, the best interests of the children were not served, reasonable efforts for reunification were not made, and various constitutional rights were violated.
We review termination proceedings de novo. In re S.R., 600 N.W.2d 63, 64 (Iowa Ct. App. 1999). The grounds for termination must be proved by clear and convincing evidence. Id. Our primary concern is the best interest of the child. Id.
II. Background Facts and Proceedings
This family came to the attention of the Department of Human Services (DHS) in the autumn of 2009 in large part because Michelle was in a relationship with a man-Matthew-who is on the sex offender registry. The children have been moved around a great deal. In late 2009, they were in the custody of their father, who resided with his mother, the children's paternal grandmother. The children were formally removed from the care and custody of their parents on November 30, 2009. Shortly thereafter, Michelle married Matthew. The children were adjudicated as CINA January 8, 2010. It appears in the record the children were placed in the care of their paternal grandmother, and then in July 2011, they were placed in a fifty-fifty custody arrangement between their grandmother and Michelle. They were later placed back in Michelle's custody because of health and safety concerns with the grandmother. This was confirmed in a review hearing on October 19, 2011. Michelle had made some progress. However, in April, 2012, after Michelle continued to expose the children to known sexual offenders and, as DHS puts it, "the mother was also coaching the girls to be fearful of DHS and services providers and asking them to keep secrets," the children were removed and placed into a pre-adoptive foster home. A termination petition was filed shortly thereafter.
III. Clear and Convincing Evidence
The State bears the burden of proving the statutory elements by clear and convincing evidence. In re D.D., 653 N.W.2d 359, 361 (Iowa 2002). Clear and convincing evidence is evidence leaving no serious or substantial doubt about the correctness of the conclusions drawn from it. Id.
One of the greatest impediments against reunification is Michelle's inability to make correct decisions regarding whom she should expose her children to, particularly men on the sex offender registry. During the pendency of this case, Michelle chose to marry Matthew even though DHS advised her many times to end that harmful relationship for the sake of protecting the children. Michelle eventually divorced Matthew on August 9, 2011, but claimed she ended the relationship six months prior for the purpose of reunifying with her children. However, the district court found, and we agree, Michelle did not end her relationship with Matthew even after the divorce and continued to expose her children to him-an adjudicatory harm. Evidence of the continued relationship is shown in multiple ways. First, while in Michelle's care, the children began to report to service providers that Matthew still spent time with them. Second, while Michelle claims it was a "four to five minute" lapse in judgment and not indicative of a relationship, there are multiple, lengthy recorded phone conversations between Michelle and Matthew while he was in jail. These conversations included declarations of love and longing and discussions of financial security. While in jail, he discussed paying "their" rent, and refers to the children as "his daughters." The conversations were clearly not the first time the two had spoken in eighteen months, as Michelle testified, but rather demonstrative of a continued relationship.
In addition to her unwillingness to make proper relationship decisions, Michelle was also not cooperative with DHS and service providers. Michelle claims "the Department systematically began to destroy the parent-child bonds between herself and her children and unreasonably denied contact between herself and the children." However, it was Michelle who impeded DHS's efforts to help repair the parent-child relationship. For example, Michelle carried two phones but only provided one phone number to DHS. She told Matthew in one of the recorded jail conversations, one phone is for DHS and one is for other people. Michelle did not give her phone records to her Family Safety, Risk, and Permanency (FSRP) service provider as requested because she said she did not trust him. She even requested her apartment manager's husband escort the FSRP provider off the property if he were to stop by. Moreover, when the children were removed from her care on March 8, 2012, Michelle's response was to discontinue communication with DHS and other service providers for several weeks, then bragging to Matthew in a recorded jail conversation about her intentional failure to cooperate with services. At the termination hearing, she changed her tune and testified she didn't return DHS's phone calls or cooperate with services immediately after the children's placement in foster care because, she "wanted to make sure that [she] was protecting [her]self." At the time of the termination hearing, her cooperation was still so lacking that not one professional could support increased visitation of any kind let alone reunification with the children.
Based on our de novo review, we find the State proved by clear and convincing evidence the children would still be exposed to adjudicatory harm, that is inappropriate people and the dangers ...