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In re Marriage of Ulferts

Court of Appeal of Iowa

July 10, 2013

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF MARCUS R. ULFERTS AND NICHOLE A. ULFERTS Upon the Petition of MARCUS R. ULFERTS, Petitioner-Appellee, And Concerning NICHOLE A. ULFERTS, Respondent-Appellant.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Jones County, Ian K. Thornhill, Judge.

In this dissolution action concerning Nichole and Marcus Ulferts, Nichole appeals the district court's award of shared physical care of the parties' child.

Andrew B. Howie of Hudson, Mallaney, Shindler & Anderson, P.C., West Des Moines, for appellant

Janette S. Voss of Remley, Willems, McQuillen & Voss, L.L.P., Anamosa, for appellee.

Considered by Doyle, P.J., and Danilson and Mullins, JJ.

DANILSON, J.

In this dissolution action concerning Nichole and Marcus Ulferts, Nichole appeals the district court's award of shared physical care of the parties' twenty-month-old child. Upon the strength of the trial court's observation of the demeanor of the parents and the evidence of the parties' ability to co-parent, we affirm.

The couple married on July 10, 2010, and had their son on November 8, 2010. They began to live together in December 2010. They separated in February 2011. A temporary order placed the child in Nichole's physical care, for the most part due to the fact that Nichole was the child's primary care giver and the couple had "actually lived together for, at most, six weeks, " of their nine-month marriage.

Following the dissolution trial, the district court entered a decree dissolving the parties' marriage and ordering shared physical care of the child. The court found:

The Court finds joint physical care is in [the child]'s best interest. Both Marcus and Nichole are young parents with a lot to learn. They have both leaned on their families for help in raising [the child]. There is certainly nothing wrong with that. With the unplanned pregnancy, the quick wedding, and the maturity level of both parties at the time, stress and uncertainty certainly dominated both. With Nichole carrying the baby and being so close to her mother, it was logical that Nichole would lean on her throughout the process and beyond. Likewise, Marcus was faced with new responsibilities as a father and did not handle situations well at times. Nevertheless, both parties are [the child]'s parents, both parties love [the child] unconditionally, both parties have responsibilities to [the child], and both parties sincerely desire to be a major part of [the child]'s life. From observations in court, the Court believes that both parties are ready to step up and take on more responsibility as parents. This does not mean they should reject the assistance being given by their families. Rather, the parties should take advantage of the assistance being provided to grow into better parents for [the child].
Nichole has some legitimate concerns about Marcus's ability to care for [the child] based upon past experiences. However, the Court believes Marcus has matured as a parent over the last two years. Moreover, like Nichole, the Court does not believe Marcus ever intentionally hurt [the child]. As [the child] grows older, both Marcus and Nichole will continue to make mistakes. This is true for all parents. They will continue to learn from these mistakes and become better parents.
One of Nichole's major concerns is the dangers of farm life. Farming is a dangerous occupation. However, from the evidence presented at trial, the Court finds Marcus is taking the necessary precautions in introducing [the child] to his family business in age appropriate ways. Being a farmer certainly does not disqualify Marcus as a physical care parent. Moreover, Marcus' mother is no less capable of providing daycare for [the child] than Nichole's mother just because Marcus' mother is also a farmer.
[The child] has two parents who love him and want to be engaged in his life. Maximizing his relationship with both parents, under the circumstances, is in his best interest. For this reason, the Court orders joint physical custody in this case.

Upon our de novo review, see In re Marriage of Sullins, 715 N.W.2d 242, 247 (Iowa 2006), and giving deference to the trial court, which is in a better position to assess the parties' demeanor and credibility, see In re Marriage of Walton, 577 N.W.2d 869, 871 (Iowa Ct. App. 1998), ...


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